tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3095542433316729477.post1069317004728222293..comments2023-04-07T07:01:15.469-07:00Comments on An Unexpected Twist: Just a bit helplessElizahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13360382632125391442noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3095542433316729477.post-60601012970348163882010-05-15T16:51:45.642-07:002010-05-15T16:51:45.642-07:00I hope you told them. Self harm is very dangerous....I hope you told them. Self harm is very dangerous. I might be over reacting but I want you to talk about it. Maybe if you talk about it, it will help and you will be ok. Oreo said you have to talk about! She's a cat she know's people.Eating With Othershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07885274679677042833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3095542433316729477.post-27462274930881343682010-05-12T22:48:10.000-07:002010-05-12T22:48:10.000-07:00I really hope you're able to tell the program ...I really hope you're able to tell the program staff the truth. I bet they'll surprise you by their reaction. And, when you tell them, also tell them your fears: that you'll be put in a higher level of care, etc.now.is.nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05102652111745735039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3095542433316729477.post-59460334495472059002010-05-11T03:18:45.775-07:002010-05-11T03:18:45.775-07:00Sometimes honesty is so hard ... and the last thin...Sometimes honesty is so hard ... and the last thing in the world that we want to do is tell the truth. We fear people's reactions, we fear the "consequences" of putting a voice to it, and at least for me, I can continue to pretend that something is not an issue as long as I do not speak it.<br />However, one thing I am learning is that we are only as sick as our secrets ... and after all the "fallout", it actually feels good to have told the truth. People cannot help us if they do not really know what is going on.<br />I know it is going to be incredibly painful, but I think you should tell them. In the end, it will make you feel better (and keep in mind, I said "in the end").<br />Just my two cents.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com